kingdedede:

you’d think there’d be room to talk about how trans men are still men while acknowledging that our lived experiences differ from cis men, but it seems like most folks have three settings: trans men aren’t men, trans men are men-lite (i.e., allowing trans men in women’s spaces while excluding trans women, “smol soft beans uwu”), or trans men are men so they have the exact same experiences and privileges as cis men